Some help for couples and singles.

COMMERCIAL OR HOUSE PARTIES

Why go to clubs or a house party ? Simple answer is you will meet far more others this way in one evening and with better results than you will by answering adds to meet a couple or single at a bar that often are no shows . And if one couple does not meet your needs there are many others that might.

Private home parties or commercial clubs ? Choice is not easy, First look at the cost difference. Commercial clubs usually cost about $40 to enter and often a membership charge. They either are a bottle club BYOB where you pay to get your own drink back and a tip. This can easily turn into $50 or more for a couple or even more for mixed drinks. Even a coke on ice will cost you a few bucks. Or if they are one of the few real bars the cost is even higher. 2 cans of miller light beer at a local nudist resort cost us just under $10 a few weeks ago. Private home clubs usually let you BYOB and serve yourself free. Often at commercial clubs you pay for extras like , lockers, towels, pool table and usually very little food or snacks. Most private parties offer food,snacks,ice ,towels,showers ,etc for free. Bottom line is even if commercial club's let's you in for reduced price of $20 per couple or free with purchase of membership card for $20 they still will get far more than that in a night out of you.

Other differences are they often play music aimed at 20's crowd with bright flashing lights. That is a plus or minus depending on your taste. We offer country and 60's 70's rock and some newer rock and slow dance music that you can actually dance to and at a volume that you can talk over.. Pole music for the girls.

Also you often see clickish groups at commercial clubs. Most private home parties try to get you to mingle. At ours seats fill up fast at the oval bar and overflow sit at one of our large tables. Items like a hot tub help break the ice and gives you a reason to be nude. At commercial clubs you usually see several small tables with maybe 4 chairs, that makes it harder to mingle. If you ask to join a couple at a small table they will assume your interested in them and that puts pressure on everyone. When you sit at an oval bar or large round table you are facing many others and no pressure to talk to anyone. Give it a try ,you will like the difference. At bars in commercial clubs you usually can only talk to the person sitting on either side of you and one is your spouse.

You will likely see far more couples and singles at a commercial club but very unlikely you actually talk to more than a few. Here all of our people will talk to everyone. Typically at our parties you will meet 60 or more people in an evening. Some are not what you are looking for sexually but will make friends anyways

Both serve a purpose and can be great fun. We have been very active in this lifestyle for past 17 years and been to both commercial clubs and several home parties. We usually have far more fun at home parties. We were members of the Palms in Cape Coral (now closed) for many years before moving to Tampa and learned a fine way of how to swing with class and often had 3 or more parties each in a night. We welcome everyone to try our place. No we are not perfect for everyone, nobody can be. What we offer is a friendly group that keeps growing every party. Plenty of great food and snacks, a nice dance floor with a pole for the girls that are up to it. Hot tub and pool table to help mingle. An area for smokers and non smokers that have central heat and air as well as large screened room outdoors (heated when its too cold). When your ready you can go off to a private room or group room.